A true lady in her H0E PHASE

SEX IS SOo\oooooooooo AMAZING……..when it’s with a grown ass man who upgrades the quality of life around you. 

But, I doubt it's that. In fact, it hardly ever is. 

Which is partially why this study even exists!

Yup! This phase is hardly about promiscuity. It’s about research!

Crazy right? I fear so many of us misunderstood the assignment. 

But no need for shame. Who doesn't like to get their rocks off? Besides, 

There are no refunds on sexual exchanges. 

Now let’s get back to what’s really important: Research. 

Who is the researcher? You

Who is the subject? Also.. you!

So where do these “love interests” come into play? 

They are frankly some of the best teachers we’ll ever come across. 

Because they are the clearest mirrors reflecting our shadows back at us. 

I’ve honestly acquired some of my finest pearls from guys I would’ve stamped “fuck boys” in the past. 

We’re they fuck boys or did I just not give a fuck about myself? 

Both! 

But it’s amazing how what you attract shows you what you already are. So the next time you bring up your avoidant ex, ask yourself why you haven't checked your credit score in three months. 

See, that’s the best thing about this research. You didn’t have to fuck to find the answer. The answers were lying around like dirty socks. You just had to be brave enough to look. 

And when you are, people (unfortunately) just become data. The research becomes less about deciphering the wounds of who you’ve attracted and more about who you were when they arrived. Observe closely. Observe honestly. What terms and conditions did you agree to? And why? 

Because a true lady only cares to solve her own unknowns.

After all, you were the primary subject of this study. 

All else is null and void.